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All litigation comes with a financial and emotional cost but none as much as Family Law. Part of our role as solicitors is to help the client see past the anger and emotion of the situation that they are experiencing by providing them with logical, reasoned and cost-effective advice.
Running a family law file that is balanced and considered is an art that sometimes solicitors get very wrong.
In the recent Family Court decision of Simic & Norton [2017] FamCa 1007, Benjamin J placed emphasis on the fact that solicitors were not employed “postman” to vent the anger and vitriol of clients. In this matter, so strongly held were his Honours views, that he referred the lawyers of both parties to the Legal Services Commission of NSW for investigation as to whether their fees and approach to the file constituted professional misconduct.
This matter was scheduled for a seven (7) day hearing and the parties would have spent about $860,000.00 in legal fees by the time the matter was resolved. Benjamin J referred to the “culture of bitter, adversarial and highly aggressive family law litigation “in the Sydney registry where this matter was heard.
Attached to one parties fifty (50) plus page affidavit were reams of correspondence between the solicitors throughout the course of the litigation, some of which His Honour stated were “inflammatory and reflected the anger of the parties… the letters were at times accusatory. They were often verbose and… unnecessary tit for tat commentary… some served little to no forensic purpose.”
As solicitors engaged to run a file, it is our job to ensure that communication is necessary, balanced, considered and relevant. If your solicitor refuses to relay your view of things verbatim, bear in mind that they are doing the job you have employed them to do!
It is important to remember that when a family law file is run in an aggressive adversarial manner, the only winners are the lawyers; and trust us when we say we don’t feel like winners at the time!!

About the author
Samantha Sticklan
Director
LLB, Acc. Spec (Fam. Law), Accredited Mediator NMAS, BA(Journ)
Samantha Sticklan commenced with Macrossan & Amiet in February 2018. Samantha grew up in Northern NSW, relocating to Brisbane to attend boarding school and later obtaining her law degree at Griffith University.
In 2004 Samantha relocated to Mackay to take up employment as an Articled Clerk. Samantha was previously employed by another local practice for 14 years, during which time she was successful in obtaining recognition as an Accredited Family Law Specialist by the Qld Law Society.
Samantha is a mother and wife, and when not working keeps her stress levels at bay by taking part in a variety of physical pursuits.
Samantha is an active member of the Mackay Community, currently volunteering with Artspace Mackay Foundation, the Mackay Community Legal Centre and the BMA Mackay Marina Run.
About Macrossan & Amiet Solicitors
For over 100 years, Macrossan & Amiet Solicitors has been a leading local law firm in Mackay, with offices in Proserpine and Cannonvale servicing the Whitsundays region. Our experienced solicitors provide professional legal services to individuals, families and businesses across regional Queensland.
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